Because it doesn’t matter that you show her you love her every other day.No woman remembers how many times you cooked for her,washed the dishes, put the kids to sleep, or rubbed her back when February 14th comes around.Or go to the closest flower garden, hold our hands amidst the roses and remind us why you love us. Even if your fabulous Jewess is not a yoga mama, or a health food conscious co-op member, she’s still trying to steer away from increasing the size of her hips. But this is not the time to get her those kind of things. She knows you love her food, but those gifts aren’t romantic. When it comes to nice gifts, jewelry is a good bet, unless you’re scrimping and saving this year and buying luxuries will make your Jewess freak out. Don’t hold back, but realize that these days, you can get a stunning bouquet at Bachman’s or any flower shop for (maybe less). (Photo: Vicki Wolkins Photography) *FYI – BIG CAVEAT to this post. If you’re a gay or lesbian Jew reading this post, please let us know what this holiday means – or doesn’t mean – to you.We’re already a bit more deliciously curvy than the average female – help us show it off, not boost it in ways we’d rather not. But either buy your Jewess something you know she’ll like, or buy her a gift card to Victoria’s Secret and go shopping together. If she’s for real, you’ll have many more years to explore these type of gifts. Art is also lovely, if you know she’s a big fan of a certain artist; otherwise it could be risky, especially if no returns are allowed. Especially when so many of the messages around Valentine’s Day are about guys and their ladies, Jewesses or not.The prohibition doesn’t apply if there are other people in the room, or even if there’s a chance that someone else might unexpectedly enter the room. It could be a picnic in a public park or even a stroll around town.Based on this rule (called Yichud, in hebrew), dating should preferably be conducted in a public place. As long as you’re not secluded in a room together, pretty much anything works.
Let the personality of the person you are meeting unfold. Put the physical attraction (or lack thereof) on hold while you explore the deeper things.As an extension, all physical contact is also prohibited.When strictly Orthodox Jewish men and women date, you won’t see them holding hands or engaging in any sort of physical contact.Many successful marriages have resulted when reluctant people were willing to give the other person a second chance. "Don't touch" is the way to come closer to developing the emotional intimacy that is neccesary for a relationship to blossom into marriage. Make a rule that you won't touch for the first 30 days. 5,761 years ago, the Jews were betrothed to G-d at Mt. Practice giving as much as you can and you will be well-prepared for marriage which is all about giving. The Jewish wisdom tradition teaches us to seek a Jewish spiritual counselor who knows Torah law and lives by it. Then you will not make a mistake in your choice of whom to marry. The Torah tells us that our Matriarch, Leah's eyes were weak. I have an e-book to help you get really clear about who you are and what you're in this world to do, so that you can communicate this clearly to your soulmate.You will find that your respect for each other grows so great you are afraid to touch, and this deep respect is the strongest foundation for a successful marriage. Sinai, and we have been developing the relationship ever since. The goal is to ascend in love with full awareness of the divine potential between you.. Pray, beg, cry out to G-d to help you find your soulmate. This Is a Completely Kosher Personal Development Course Based on Authentic Torah & Chassidic Concepts. Sure there are basic rules of dating that most people try to follow. From a religious perspective there are in fact rules for courtship in Jewish law.